We all recognise the popular image of submissive men who worship women and get off on being dominated.
So why is it that submissive women are often perceived very differently? This response is perhaps understandable on the surface, but it misses the point.
Sexual kinks and fetishes do not usually translate from the bedroom to the outside world, let alone to the boardroom. Surely the very point of equality is acknowledging that women can have the same desires as wabted
Surely everyone should be free to indulge their kinks without shame or judgment, regardless of gender? I spoke to women who are happy being sexually submissive and asked them what they get out of it.
Sex is the only situation in which I would be at all overly compliant. But in bed I want to be looked.
Ever wanted to be submissive I need someone to be able to restrain me with just a calm word or a glance. So subissive came as a shock that it turned me on when someone said it to me during sex — it was a real juxtaposition of hating something and being turned on by it.
Sounds terrible, right? I cannot imagine anyone speaking to me like that in any other setting. Lucy disagrees.In A Passionate Kiss
We find that it increases our connection as a couple as we share a fetish that we both enjoy immensely. And we communicate a lot during sessions, which improves our relationship as well as our sex life.
I took me a while to get my head round it all and it involved much talking. I love being able to enjoy the sensations and the experiences.
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