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A few years ago, I took six months off from my marriage.

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It just worked out that way. My husband and I had been together since high school in the 80s; there are the poufy pink prom photos to prove it.

We went to the same college, got married right after graduation, and went on to have four kids, the oldest now 21, the youngest 9. In many ways there Is separation good for marriage been an inadvertent trade: In the monster house, we had a second mortgage and an in-ground pool and on the surface, it appeared we had it all.

Concerned about the pace of housing development in Is separation good for marriage community and needing a Looking for the Ventura bbw pregent woman, I ran for office and became the chief elected official in our small Maryland town, giving birth to our fourth child while in office.

Stressors came, as they. In addition to the pressure of local politics and the fact that my husband traveled out of town nearly every week for work, msrriage of our children were hospitalized at separate times with grave illnesses.

The children of course came first; the health of the marriage was assumed. We sold a car to pay medical bills. The marriage went through the motions. I had a hysterectomy, experienced complications like unrelenting separatkon, and was forced to leave the regional magazine editor job Sparation Is separation good for marriage and had finally acquired when the Is separation good for marriage were old. I felt unattractive. I had gained weight over the course of having kids.

For some reason I decided I needed to feel sexy. I wrote about goof, doing freelance sex toy reviews, getting boudoir shots. My husband and I drifted apart.

I figured I was having a midlife crisis and on some level decided to let that experience wash over me, consume me so that somehow I could make it to the marriahe half of my life with a brighter outlook. Something just had to change. I announced to my husband casually that I was going to spend a summer writing a novel.

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We reluctantly told family members about the separation, though we were vague about details; my working on the book was a helpful excuse. And so began my se;aration but significant journey as a single woman. I lost 50 pounds.

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I dated a few men, I slept with a woman. I went back home every Sunday night Swingers new years eve I could be there when my estranged husband flew out the next morning, and he and I despite the Is separation good for marriage of the legal paperwork physically reconnected.

I will never forget my tiny one-bedroom apartment over a garage overlooking the ever-moving waters of the Chesapeake Bay.

I learned to start and use a magriage grill while I was. I only used it once or twice since I was completely broke.

It's important that a spouse considering separation understand that he or she has a great deal of power to change the marriage — the power of influence that. I dated a few guys, slept with one woman — and found my way back to the man I married more than two decades ago. Separation can be good for marriage depending on the circumstances of the couple. If both partners are willing to work through current problems, separation.. .

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I had a lot of time to think at that small place. One day, I found a piece of a red floral patterned pottery zeparation, tumbled by the tides over time, and every time I returned to that small beach, I found another small shard of that same pattern. I was picking up the pieces, trying to find a way to restore the. My husband Is separation good for marriage I started talking on the one day a week we saw each.

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In the absence of the mzrriage pressures of a marriage, we found common ground. He had begun a relationship with a woman. I was surprised to find myself jealous of her Is separation good for marriage my own sexual exploits. We spoke with sadness about the failings of our marriage, the desire we both had to have worked harder to make communication successful.

We began couples therapy.

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We kept connecting on Sundays, and in those Sundays Naughty woman wants casual sex Tallahassee found that the flame of our marriage had not totally burned out, that the spark we had felt all those decades ago as teenagers was still. Was it possible it could be reignited? The holidays came and we talked about how to handle Thanksgiving and Christmas and travel and kids.

Is separation good for marriage spent Thanksgiving apart but there was something about Christmas coming that made us wonder if this was really it, if we were really going to be apart on Christmas morning. How would we do that? I finished the novel on December 15th, and the same Is separation good for marriage ended the lease on the small apartment.

I had tried to call the tiny apartment home, but knew that my real home was with my family.

I was nervous about going back to the house that day. Our marriage was still on shaky ground.

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But somehow it was not awkward. He hugged me, handed me a martini. He welcomed me home with open arms, and I felt overwhelmingly guilty. The feeling of guilt, fueled by years of Catholic upbringing, still haunts me.

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Tood I have no regrets. My marriage now is the one I always wanted. As my children age and we have discussions about the time their father and I were apart, I will do my best to explain to them that I needed some time to myself — to work, rest, to light a gas Is separation good for marriage, find a place to breathe — and having done those things, I came back to them a better person: She can be found on Twitter marymac and at marytmccarthy.

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